It 8767 s a message that says 8775 I 8767 m too chicken-shit to/couldn 8767 t be bothered to take the effort to write you first and so I 8767 m hoping you 8767 ll do the hard part for me. At worst, you 8767 ve just sent the wrong message before you 8767 ve said anything. About You: This is where you introduce/brag about yourself in miniature.8776 It 8767 s the Platonic Friend Gambit of online dating. Most women here are single mothers and married wives looking for an affair. You want her to know that you a) have a life and b) have your shit together.There is nothing worse than reading a joke that isn t funny and then having the fact that it isn t funny, but that somehow someone else thinks it is, explained to you.
The truth is writing a message that captures the attention of a woman isn’t nearly as difficult as one might think.Here’s a guide to making that first impression really count and, hopefully, hearing back from the person who’s caught your eye.1.Pay Attention To The Profile It’s important to show that you’ve really taken the time to consider whether the person you’re contacting is a good fit for you.Most women take a passive approach to online dating.Often we think about the old dating rules, which clearly state men should be the ones to pursue women.